Why Cheat?
The idea of cheating just baffles me! I don’t get it! Do you just want your cake and eat it too? Are you unhappy in your relationship? Or are you just doing it because the person is available/easy/or throwing themselves at you? I mean when you were in middle school and you had 15 gf/bfs hahahaha w/e #kidish. But when you’re 25 not so much you are a #“O”! Why be in a relationship? Be single! Don’t hold on to somebody who possibly really loves/likes you and just drag them along! Why hurt them? They could be with someone who truly wants to be with them! I am at the point to where people think it’s cool/fun/entertaining to have various gf/bfs, but to me, that’s too much to juggle, time, effort, money, keeping your story straight, etc. If they are not your main USUALLY they only get one thing, WHICH we all know what that is! I mean is your gf/bf not good enough? Don’t make your gf/bf the captain of the team “WHOOPIE” #sarcasm…you can keep that!
After conducting a survey, I asked several people (both women and men) “What is the purpose of cheating?” I got some really good answers! For example, “loldrunkieface” told me (when sober) that one day her and a male friend had a conversation on “why men cheat?” He stated “Women cheat for a reason, men just need a location”. Wooooooow! Sadly, a lot of the answers I got were similar to that! Only speaking on my behalf, I know so many women that cheat because there bf/gf is a piece of ish, but they just can’t let that “piece of ish” go! But there is a NEW type woman out there! She has a bf/gf and she is STILL GETTING IT IN, no strings attached, lol slowly but surely the roles are being reversed! But that’s neither here nor there. *Ahem* However, the BEST answer I got was:
“Women spend their whole life looking for the ONE, men spend there’s looking for VARIETY! Men could love the hell out of there girl and still cheat, it has nothing to do with having a bad relationship. Men are VISUAL, usually, they do not wife the girl, they do it because it’s NEW, that girl probably means nothing to them. They just want to “do” something new at that time. It’s nothing emotional for a dude it’s all PHYICAL! When women cheat its WORSE because women are more methodical and emotional in everything that they do! If she goes out and cheats her emotions are involved in that. A girl is not just going to say (*I’m thinking the NEW aged woman will*) “this dude is fine as hell, I’m going to phuck him.” Mostly women just don’t go and hook up with a guy because they are attractive, A MAN WILL though! If the girl has a fatty (fatty= a big derrière) and depending on how much static (static=attention) she is giving him…usually the man will take it and think…”Just this once” Sometimes it turns into again and again but then it’s just sex. For most guys who cheat the girl is usually not extra extra bad (meaning there actual gf is better looking) she just has something attractive about her at the time.”
*Speechless* Welp guys what do you think?…women/men cheat for a plethora of reasons, what are/were yours? Speak on it!
Eh what’s really cheating? A phone call here or there a kiss a bump… maybe.
Seriously though, if I’ve ever cheated, which one might say a phone call is cheating, I don’t call it that. If I’ve been driven from my bf to someone else then i’ve already broken up with them in my mind. I just hadn’t grew enough balls to let them know it was over outside of my mind.
Kelly, thats a great question, everyone has there own idea of what cheating is so its hard to say. Some ppl feel like talking on the phone to other ppl is cheating while others dont! But great point! Thanks for participating!
I with Terry ppl are just selfish and dont care about others feelings. But remember what goes around comes around!!!! Now days you have women jus a low dwn and dirty as men. And its not jus young girls it the old heads too thats trying to be young again the cougar lol!!
Heeey Tamieka Girl! NOT the cougars though! *smh* man I tell you, but you are right though…dont let any get your man! Thanks for participating!
All this makes perfect sense! People are just selfish and dont care about other ppls feelings. I personally would just leave if I was the slightest bit confused about whether I wanted to be in a relationship or if I wanted to date ppl!
Terry, thats true! That is the sensible thing to do! But sadly not all ppl think like that!