Hi Ladies n’ Gents,
My Stister n’ I was having a discussion about some recent events that past n’ our thoughts on what we think we would have done in there situation…One of those situations was pulling the plug on a loved one who is basically already mentally n’ physically gone…
My Stister feels ( n’ yes my stister) feels that if someone she loved was a vegetable she would most likely pull the plug. She feels the decision would be hard to do but that fact that they are suffering would be enough for her to put them to rest. However, I on the other had feel different! I would not do it! I could not live knowing that I choose someone else destiny! I would let God make that decision when he is ready! I feel as though it is not my place! Even though the loved one could not speak, see, or hear me! Knowing that there is a chance for them to come them n’ they are alive ( meaning there heart is still beating) that is reason enough for me! So tell me….
Ok, I believe that this is a very hard decision to make, however it is one that should not be made in a selfish manner. You have to think about what that loved one would want at the end of it all. No one wants to live in suffering. Thus, you need to take your self out of it and do what that person may feel is best or how they may have wanted to move forward if they had the opportunity to decide for themselves.