How do you deal with knowing that the person you want to be with is not ready for the type of relationship that you are ready for? Do you wait and work it out with them? Or Move On? #Dilemma!!! LOL
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Christina
14 years ago
I would say to move on, you know the saying, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans” and its so true.
I have to agree with some of the previous post that its important to be a friend first and foremost. However, I would wait to stick it out DEPENDING on the situation. If you see after some time (an undefined amount of time) that you have become weary of it then DEUCES!
I would have to say that you move on. Be friends also hope that they have the heart t tell you that they aren’t ready for a relationship but instead want a friendship. Anyone who tells you straight up the honest truth like that should be (to you) great to have as a great friend. Maybe something could happen in the future, but Don’t look for it. But If it’s one of those situations that you wanted to be with them and can’t handle being their friend because you wanted more. I would say move on completely because you’ll make… Read more »
Amanda, Thank you, girl it was not to long, I really enjoyed reading your response. I can imagine how seeing them with another person could be hard, but I cant help but to think, if you are with somebody else, what are your intentions with them? I mean, either they just didn’t want to be with you in-particular or they are just looking for a “piece” on the side that can remain constant.
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I would say to move on, you know the saying, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans” and its so true.
Christina, lol good point!
I have to agree with some of the previous post that its important to be a friend first and foremost. However, I would wait to stick it out DEPENDING on the situation. If you see after some time (an undefined amount of time) that you have become weary of it then DEUCES!
Thats true Popoff, patients is key! Thanks for commenting 🙂
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I would have to say that you move on. Be friends also hope that they have the heart t tell you that they aren’t ready for a relationship but instead want a friendship. Anyone who tells you straight up the honest truth like that should be (to you) great to have as a great friend. Maybe something could happen in the future, but Don’t look for it. But If it’s one of those situations that you wanted to be with them and can’t handle being their friend because you wanted more. I would say move on completely because you’ll make… Read more »
Amanda, Thank you, girl it was not to long, I really enjoyed reading your response. I can imagine how seeing them with another person could be hard, but I cant help but to think, if you are with somebody else, what are your intentions with them? I mean, either they just didn’t want to be with you in-particular or they are just looking for a “piece” on the side that can remain constant.
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Ugh!! If your smart you will MOVE ON! If your me you will stick around for 2 years then finally MOVE ON!
I would say move on.
It’s important to be a friend first before you take the next step.