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Why do you hold on to someone when you have no intentions on being with them?

For those of you that can relate please …

Speak on it!

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Popoff
Popoff
14 years ago

It’s nothing like being comfortable.

Deelicious
Deelicious
14 years ago

I think some people are afraid to be alone…and also it’s nice having the company of another person even if you don’t see the relationship going anywhere. I broke up with my bf of 2 years and still have feelings for him even though I know we aren’t right for each other. I am seeing another guy now but I know he’s not the one for me and I’ll never be in love with him but I still continue to see him…I even told him I don’t see us having a future together. He was upset and said he really… Read more »

LolDrunkieFace
LolDrunkieFace
14 years ago

Ummmm Miss CMichelleStyles…ion ‘preciate you talkin to me like that on ur site! U betta love to like my sarcasm comments! LOL.

DivaIcon
DivaIcon
14 years ago

I think its because they dont want to be alone and maybe that person is doing a lot for them…just plain out selfish!

shehasavoice2
shehasavoice2
14 years ago

I agree with ROVE I would also like to add that some people are not ready to commit to a person the same way that the other person may want to commit to them, but don’t want to see that person with another person out of fear that they might be “missing out”. Whatever the case my be, it is selfish to and dishonest to be with someone under false pretenses, when you know your heart isn’t in it. You are wasted your time and theirs.

LolDrunkieFace
LolDrunkieFace
14 years ago

“For those of you that can relate…”(?) So if I can’t relate then I can’t speak on it? RUDENESS! Lol.
I agree with montrese and ROVE. I have a friend that should ask herself this same exact question…

ROVE
14 years ago

It’s done because of insecurity. Some people don’t like being alone and would rather be with the wrong fit rather that be alone.

montrese
montrese
14 years ago

It’s a comfort thing. Even though you’ve determined they aren’t the one for you, they make you feel comfortable until something better comes along. Not saying that’s ok to do or right morally, but hey, as Mr. West says “If nobody is using you, you’re useless.” LOL!